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Cake day: September 25th, 2025

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  • since choosing a person to potentially date does involve comparing them to your other “options.”

    i mean if you choose a partner like you would choose a car, then i guess it is like this

    or actually even then it is not like this, like there is nothing objective for most categories.

    like you list interests as below average, what is this even supposed to mean lmao or intelligence like how would you even know that and for earning potential, there are like a lot more poor people than rich, beeing poor is the normal one lol

    even for education, like people can still know dtuff even if they dont go to university… Or know nothing if they went

    what i am saying is this sounds more like you just beeing unhappy with yourself if anything. Or if you are happy, then you are probably just not a good match anyway for someone that is like looking for a car.



  • i really dont know if i should do online dating, like i mean i kind of want to meet someone and this is how to do it appearently, but also i rather would meet someone by chance and get to know them over time… And like furthermore everytime i try these apps, it ends up with me beeing obsessed just about the matches itself, feeling either good or bad, and no intrest to actually chat with people since like it feels a bit forced and like i dont know, it is automatically like multiple chats, since mostly likely some dont respond and this for example already feels weird and then it is more like just chatting with someone than chatting with a specific person if that makes sense… and like it does not feel like fun or anything to talk with multiple people basically about the same stuff and so on… i hope someone understands what i mean

    i dont really spend much time on dating apps and last time was years ago to be fair tho










  • but you have to understand that if you dont like please these companys and make the working conditions like good, that they will just leave to some other cheaper place 🙃🙃 (I am pretty sure that is like the argument i am always hearing, that it will be too exspensive for the companys)

    Like as if some other place will not always be cheaper and easier to be used to produce stuff, and as if maybe one should not be blackmailed by the greed of the investors, and as if maybe the problem would be like something else (capitalism)