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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Not if some of those resources are things like oil. It’s gonna run out eventually.

    But like, yes, in principle there’s plenty of resources, especially as the main source of energy is the sun. But there won’t be if that resource usage grows infinitely, even if people stop hoarding. It’s going to become a problem eventually no matter what, unless the endless pursuit of growth ends




  • Frankly, out of everything, I’m amazed at just how textbook it fucking is. It’s incredible. You’d think that it would be more subtle, more covert, maybe even slightly different so that people won’t suspect a thing, or hell, maybe even due to them already knowing that this is how it went in history and what the end result was

    But no. It’s literally fucking, act for act, the exact same shit. I can hardly believe it. It’s so… I don’t even know what the appropriate word for it is

    It really is something





  • Yes, you should very much talk about whether stuff like this is okay to do to someone else before you do it. You can’t consent when you sleep, so you must get full consent beforehand.

    And yes, you should typically ask whether doing something is okay before you do it, in general. Communication is good, it won’t hurt anyone.

    And no, it isn’t safe to just assume anything. Ask! That’s really all there is to it. Ask and accept a “no”. Ideally you also check in a few times underway. It leads to better sex.

    My mindset comes from the kink community, where generally most things are permissable, but so long as consent stays in front and centre. Unless you have agreed beforehand to treat it otherwise, stuff like a “giggly no” is a no. Well, specifically you’d have safe words such as “red”, but I assume that’s not the case here.

    In short though, don’t just assume anything of the other person, ask them, and allow them to talk.